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As a Certified Love Transformer, I have over two decades of experience working with clients across the globe on how to heal themselves spiritually so that they can usher in their soulmates and true love. What I’ve found in my teachings, is that what is often blocking people from attracting love is the same things that are blocking them from attracting wealth.
People experience these types of “love blocks” for a variety of reasons. Love blocks exist in the subconscious mind which guides your energetic vibration, which is what is responsible for the way you show up in the world. For example, if your vibration is high–you are jubilant, radiant, magnetic, and people will gravitate toward you because they want to absorb that energy. If your vibration is low, well then, the opposite happens. Ok, you get the gist.
If you want to clear your love blocks and usher in more money, here are 5 easy steps you can take to get yourself on the path toward financial gain.
1. Put Pen to Paper: Write down a list of things you liked and disliked in your last three relationships. Circle the commonalities. Write down the trends you discovered and identify a pattern in the types of personality traits, relationship dynamics, and other characteristics of your romantic partners.
2. Get Real With Yourself: Clear your mind, and that same piece of paper, and begin to freewrite. Write down all of the ideas and principles you have about romantic relationships. Here are some questions to ask yourself:
-What was my parents’ relationship like growing up?
-What are some things I think are normal in relationships? (i.e. arguing constructively vs. arguing and stonewalling each other; using “I” language vs. blaming language)
-Does love sometimes hurt and make you feel out of control?
Don’t hold back and dig deep–and then go deeper. You will be surprised at what you uncover when you begin to ask yourself the really hard questions.
3. Build Your Ideal Life: Write down what your ideal life looks like as if it is happening right now–how much money do you want to make? Write that number down and double it. Where do you live? What do you weigh? What kind of car do you drive? What kind of house do you live in? Who is your partner and how does their love make you feel? What kind of vacations do you take and what do you two like doing for fun? Does he surprise you with gifts and if so, what kinds of gifts? The more specific the better. Create a blueprint of what you want your life to look like–don’t hold back on anything!
4. Speak It Into Existence: Read your ideal life list out loud to yourself daily–the more the better. Your subconscious mind will register this story and the more times you do it, the more vivid the picture will become in your mind. That’s exactly where we want this to go. Take it one step further and record yourself on your phone speaking about your ideal life with some calming background music playing at the same time–ideally 528 hz (find it on YouTube!). Play the recording in your sleep every night as many times as you can listen to it on loop. This will expedite your subconscious into registering your goals and help align your vibration with who you want to become.
5. Surrender It and Stay Open: Surrender your dreams and goals to the care of the universe. Trust fully that you are on the path toward the success that you seek and don’t worry about maintaining control. Keep your vision clear and top of mind, express gratitude each day for what you have and what is coming for you!
Love and money blocks do not have permission to keep you down in life. You are the master of your own universe, and therefore you have all the control when it comes to identifying and clearing what’s blocking you from attracting abundance.
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